potoooooooo 🥔@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldEnglish · 10 days agoMight explain some of my dating misstepslemmy.worldimagemessage-square39linkfedilinkarrow-up1585arrow-down17file-text
arrow-up1578arrow-down1imageMight explain some of my dating misstepslemmy.worldpotoooooooo 🥔@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldEnglish · 10 days agomessage-square39linkfedilinkfile-text
minus-squarepeopleproblems@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up30·10 days agoMy rule is: if you’re gonna trauma dump, let me do it too. Because then we start off with a good commiseration and we get to see how traumatized we are and if that trauma will prevent or enable chemistry.
minus-squareZC3rr0r@piefed.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up13·10 days agoThere’s nothing like honesty as a foundation of a relationship. Also, getting both of your baggage out there is a good way to figure out if you’re compatible.
minus-squareBloodMuffin@lemmy.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·10 days agothat’s fair, just wait your turn. no interrupting my t-dump with how it relates to your life
My rule is: if you’re gonna trauma dump, let me do it too.
Because then we start off with a good commiseration and we get to see how traumatized we are and if that trauma will prevent or enable chemistry.
There’s nothing like honesty as a foundation of a relationship. Also, getting both of your baggage out there is a good way to figure out if you’re compatible.
that’s fair, just wait your turn. no interrupting my t-dump with how it relates to your life