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Cake day: November 14th, 2023

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  • We have had some issues with this. In our case, it has mostly been stress related. Really talk to your wife and understand what it is that’s causing her to not want to. Maybe even help her figure it out together.

    Then you can start to rebuild. Knowing the cause is half the battle.

    When you know the cause of the issue, you have to try to mitigate, or eliminate that cause.

    But maybe there’s not just something “in the way”. Maybe there’s also something missing that needs to trigger her urge. Maybe start going on dates. Do romantic things together. Maybe do things together, period. Maybe she needs to reconnect. You know, ask her what she needs in order to feel sexual and horny.

    Best of luck on your nookie. 💙


















  • Misanthropy involves a negative evaluative attitude toward humanity that is based on humankind’s flaws. Misanthropes hold that these flaws characterize all or at least the greater majority of human beings. They claim that there is no easy way to rectify them short of a complete transformation of the dominant way of life.

    I thought this was quite interesting. I think I agree very much with

    there is no easy way to rectify them short of a complete transformation of the dominant way of life

    but not so much with

    these flaws characterize all or at least the greater majority of human beings

    I just think these flaws characterize all or the greater majority of human beings that possess a relative amount of power. That’s the real problem. Or perhaps the real problem is that power itself transforms humans and gives them these flaws. I’m not sure if it’s the chicken or the egg, kind of thing.