An oldie, but a goodie

  • azvasKvklenko@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    Honestly, I maybe get why some people are too sensitive to work in such conditions, but from my professional experience, I’d much rather prefer getting angry mail explaining why my actions are stupid, than everyone being nice to one another but the codebase is utter garbage and everything falls apart, which happens a lot in private companies.

    • Zacryon@feddit.de
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      1 year ago

      What if I told you that you can have constructive discussions without being verbally abusive?

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        1 year ago

        I would tell you that you haven’t worked with enough people. I don’t disagree but occasionally you find people that need a really really good reminder that they not only suck but you’ve tried to be nice multiple times and it didn’t penetrate.

    • Alien Nathan Edward@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      you seem to have created a false dichotomy where it’s impossible to fix bad code without being abusive. would you like me to call you “dumb motherfucker” or is this explanation enough?

      • Windex007@lemmy.world
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        1 year ago

        I think you’ve missed what the sin was, as well as the context of the players.

        The sin was not the bad code. Let me say it one more time for clarity: the issue was not the code

        The issue was that, when presented with the defect (inevitable outcome of any software project: not intrinsically sinful) Mauro started blaming other people on a public mailing list

        Mauro, being a maintainer, was in a position of authority. Like a police officer, their bad behaviour reflected poorly on the organization*as a whole.

        If a cop was abusing their power (publicly or not), I expect the chief of police to come down on that abuser; to make clear that this abuse is absolutely unacceptable, not only within the accute instance, but within the greater context of the expectation of the behaviour of the whole organization.

        Mauro chose the context of his abusive behaviour as the public mailing list.

        Him getting slapped down in that same forum is the direct result of his own choices.

        In the same way that I would be upset with the chief of police not publicly and harshy denouncing an abusive police officer, so would I be upset with the absence of such a response in this situation

        • Alien Nathan Edward@lemm.ee
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          1 year ago

          I didn’t miss the sin. The sin isn’t relevant to me. You don’t treat people like that. Whatever you hope to accomplish, you can accomplish without treating people like that. If someone else is being abusive, that’s not license for you to be abusive in response. If a cop was abusing their power would you expect the chief of police to publicly berate and insult him, or would you expect the standards to be enforced without resorting to that?

          When you abuse someone for being abusive you don’t make it clear that abuse is unacceptable. In fact, you do the opposite. You establish that abuse is a part of your culture. If I was considering contributing to the kernel and saw this exchange, I’d walk away. I don’t need that shit, not from Mauro, not from Linus, not from the Lord hisownself. It damages the organization long-term.

    • pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works
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      1 year ago

      Programmers are sensitive enough. All you have to do is raise your voice slightly, and they’ll think you’re yelling. You could probably make one cry just by saying their patch isn’t good, without having to resort to aggressive language.*

      I don’t know the whole history, but this seems highly unnecessary, and typical Linus. Didn’t he resolve to be better a few years ago?

      Ah found it.

      *Source: am programmur

    • crackajack@reddthat.com
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      1 year ago

      You can be angry without being rude. I’d much prefer passive aggressiveness than egregious blame-shifting and accusations.

      • oce 🐆@jlai.lu
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        1 year ago

        You don’t need to be passive agressive either, you can just be polite and factual.

        • wildginger@lemmy.myserv.one
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          1 year ago

          Being directly a cunt actually causes sabotaging employees who work the minimum letter of the contract until they can quit via a text 5 minutes after start of day because they got another job lined up.

          Dumb managers poison the well by acting like this.

        • onlinepersona@programming.dev
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          1 year ago

          If you can’t express yourself without expletives, it just means you have a small vocabulary or lack the maturity to express yourself without getting emotional, or both. It is a major sign of incompetence, unprofessionalism, and ignorance.

          Direct != being an asshole. If you don’t understand that, you have a lot to learn.

      • laurelraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        1 year ago

        Yeah, that’s a hard pass on passive aggressiveness, constructive criticism isn’t either of those things nor rude and angry ranting. Love Linus, but he really did need to chill out a bit more with these things. He could have gotten the same point across without coming across as yelling at the guy, just firmly pointing out that it was caused by the patch, the patch did things it shouldn’t ever do, and don’t break userspace or blame userspace programs

    • BCsven@lemmy.ca
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      1 year ago

      Or nice in person, then all the toxic bakstabbing behind the scenes.
      This reads like the Sh*t My Dad says book. The author said it seemed harsh to some people, but the bonus was there was never any passive agressiveness, and you always knew exactly where you stood.

    • magic_lobster_party@kbin.social
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      1 year ago

      You don’t need to tell each other to shut the fuck up in all caps and call each other idiots to get the point across. It’s possible to instruct your peers in a much more professional manner.

      • azvasKvklenko@sh.itjust.works
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        1 year ago

        I don’t know the full context, but that message doesn’t sound like it was his first reaction to a first patch he got from that guy. I’m not implying anything, but I’m also no stranger to people resilient to reasoning. I’m not a fan of this tone or language, but I don’t think it’s that big of a deal either